Do not put your life on hold by waiting for others. Instead "sculpt" your own life with a commitment to yourself, by striving and focusing for wonderful experiences and boundless happiness.
Ask yourself what you want and need to make the changes in your life in order to achieve your goals. The more specific your aspiration, the more likely you will be able to achieve it to get you on the right path towards creating the life you want.
You need to follow through with whatever you start and take responsibility for your actions. Do whatever it takes and stand tall and know you did your very best.