It is much easier to deal with life, when you feel strong and able to handle anything. First, you need to value yourself. Do not conform or change yourself in accordance to what others want you to be.
You deserve to be loved, respected and admired for being who you truly are, and not what you struggle with. Believe in yourself that you have the ability to overcome and rise above any negative or reactive feelings that make you feel on the defense against the world.
Life is not meant to feel like a battle, although sometimes, it can be. But you don't need to block your heart. It's not about being tough. It's about being strong. There's a big difference between the two!
It is having the ability to remain strong and still feel, you can be vulnerable enough to be open to LOVE.
So make the next chapter of your life journey shine the brightest with love, self-confidence and knowing that you are worth so much more!