Keeping Secrets!
We are all molded by our parents, by our friends and by society to be the person we
are today. On top of that each one of us has had our share of problems and sadness, too.
'Round and round and round she goes, where she stops, no one knows'. Is there any situation in your world that is giving the impression of going round and round in circles?
Are you of the opinion that like many other things circular, the beginning and end to this scenario have merged into one and become indistinguishable?
When you keep secrets, it can cast a cloud over your loyalty between you and those you care the most about. Of course, not everyone needs to know all of your personal details,
but it is wise not to keep the important things for those who need to know.
Just be cautious with whom you share your secrets. It is a small world and some of your secrets can come back to haunt you, especially after a falling out of friendships and relationships with the wrong people you trusted.
All it takes for us to become ill is one microscopic bug. Just consider our size compared
to it and what it is capable of doing. Similarly, one seemingly insignificant comment or thoughtless action made toward or by us can create tension instantly within a relationship. Be alert to how instrumental you could inadvertently be in creating an unnecessarily tense situation with someone.
Desperate people seize the first opportunity that presents itself, if they believe it can make the tiniest difference to an unsatisfactory situation and use it against you. At all cost, they are likely to tarnish your reputation, your creditability at the expense of your secrets.
Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counsellors and the most patient of teachers. Unfortunately, there are far too
many silent sufferers not because they do not yearn to reach out, but because they have tried and found no one who cares.
The sad truth is that there are some people who will only be there for you as long as you have something they need. When you no longer serve a purpose to them, they will leave. Let go of those who are already gone.
The good news is, if you tough it out, you will eventually weed these people out of your
life and be left with some great people you can count on. We rarely lose friends and
lovers, we just gradually figure out who our real ones are. So when people walk away
from you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you. It does not mean they are bad people; it just means that their part in your story is over.
It is time for a certain drama to cease. Though you might be at risk of overlooking a much better option by choosing to seize one, you believe to be more appropriate because its arrival appears timelier.
We tend to resent inconvenience surrounding something that is broken. We see it only
a need to repair and believe that once repaired, possibility exists that it would not be restored fully to how it was previously. Sometimes though, it takes something to require fixing before it can actually be improved.
Sometimes, it is helpful if not essential to 'go with the flow'. At other times, we need to
make a decision about where we stand with something or someone. There is a stance
you must take, an opinion that needs aired and a need to state what you are and are not willing to tolerate.
It is time to shake things up a bit, despite where life may have taken you, you are not perfect. No one is perfect. You need to reconnect with your own true self and take time
to experience the exquisite beauty of your own unique self.
The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own. No secrets. No apologies or excuses, no one to lean on, rely on or blame. It is an amazing journey and you alone are responsible for the quality of it.
The Gift Is Yours!
Life-Changing Decisions by Author Julia G. Smith
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