give them wide berth. Yet, when someone is positive and able to brighten any room with their sunny disposition, we find ourselves drawn to them.
We often underestimate how much influence we have, where those around us are concerned. We all know how, when someone is in a bad mood or being negative, we
give them wide berth. Yet, when someone is positive and able to brighten any room with their sunny disposition, we find ourselves drawn to them.
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If you are having a day of confusion on the emotional front,
far from taking the bull by the horns, you'd rather run away at the speed of light, than face a discussion or confrontation. It may not be the time to resolve a dilemma or make a constructive decision, but don't let others make the choices for you - you might live to regret it. If you believe yourself to be an exceptional person with talents and abilities, one who is friendly and kind, humble and destined to have a terrific life, this belief will lead you to set goals, work hard; develop yourself and treat others well. You will bounce back from adversity, and ultimately succeed in any endeavour you choose.
Are you being listened to? Who's heeding your opinion or thoughts? You might feel as if questions you're asking aren't being met with sensible or helpful answers but that doesn't mean you're being ignored, as much as it might feel that way. It's possible your train of thought on a particular matter is slightly ahead of those you need to be thinking along similar lines. Keep asking your questions but try to apply patience.
Age is often feared or sometimes not rejoiced in. Throhe years give us wisdom that beauty or youth cannot. We understand the value of a day. We see how one action puts many other actions into play. We see what love and forgiveness can do against hatred or indifference. Age teaches us things that will not deliver in youth or beauty. Your emotional world may collapse, and everyone else may be running around in all directions. Believe me, I know that it is difficult, but you need to get your bearings and stay calm.
The more you know where you stand, the less you will fall and the sooner you will get back up, if you do. Proof, we are often told is often found through gossips. We tend to take what we're told in such ways as gossips. We have no reason to disbelieve what we're being told, so we take what we're being told on board.
To gain insight, we would need to be prepared to dig deeper than we might be prepared to do. We should separate fact from fiction in some way and get to the bottom of a truth. Habits, we know are habits forming. We can easily slip into comfort zones of our own making and before we know it, we find ourselves in situations that we believe to be comfortable only because they have become familiar.
There are moments, when we need to take a risk and free us from a situation we gravitated toward rather than, one we made a conscious decision to be part of. Freeing yourself will bring a much needed revelation. Let that guide your next move. Emotional abuse is crippling to one’s self-esteem.
It sets us up to become trapped in the self-perpetuating cycles of suffering. Emotional abuse is a devastating, debilitating heart and soul mutilation. |
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