A personal relationship should only be between both partners.
Your relationship should only be between you and your partner. When you have a relationship, the relationship is between the two of you and the two of you only!
Other people can ruin your relationship, if you aren’t careful. This is especially true
for open relationships, when other people are brought into your personal space.
Relationships are built on respect, trust and communication, which all take work and
are earned with time and understanding. Without these qualities, an outside influence
can bring in unwanted stress and unnecessary issues by intermeddling. By allowing someone to intermeddle, you’re giving them the power to control the outcome of what happens in your personal life.
Other situations involve friends or people who have underlying goals trying to reach
your partner for their own personal gain, due to a connection or developing feelings.
If a family member or a friend is trying to push you away from someone, even though
he/she knows how much you care, see the red flag before it happens. Stay away from outside influences. Be sure to communicate to your partner of what’s happening so,
you can prepare for any other drama that happens to come your way.
Be wary of outside influences giving advice to both of you. Many times outside
influences will try to add fuel to the fire, when there are issues in the relationship to
begin with. He or she will try to talk to your partner at the worst possible time, when
both of you are upset and not thinking straight, while projecting their issues onto your partner and making the situation ten times worse. All it takes is one seemingly trustworthy person to ruin the love between the two of you.
The best way is to be open and honest from the start, and to build trust with your partner first before you let anyone else get involved. If your partner truly loves you, when a situation arises, he or she will talk to you first and get all information before making any rash decisions.
Keep your relationship strong by seeking one another’s advice, even if it means taking a couple of days apart in order to think things through, and then opening the lines of communication. Avoid all issues from other people by keeping everything between the two of you, and you’ll formulate a stronger bond.
We resent confusion. We know it plays some part in us being reluctant to pursue a
particular plan in a relationship. If we allow confusion to enter our worlds, it invites more confusion and we find ourselves caught in a spiral of perplexity. When we find ourselves confused to the point where we feel, we must take action of some sort, then it's not
usually long before we find a solution, even if it is barely visible at first.
Decisions, when they need making tend not to hang around until we're ready to make
them. A result or solution sometimes requires quick thinking, where a commitment or
arrangement is concerned. Sometimes decisions are made hastily, and have been
quietly concerned about whether or not, it was correct. Might there actually be an
argument against 'playing it safe'?
The path of least resistance can be an attractive one sometimes, but we have all
experience at some point in our lives regret that comes from what we know, we
didn't do. We know some decisions made in haste could have been better, but we
do get it right sometimes.
It’s good to seek advice from family and friends, but stay true to your thoughts and
feelings about what you want, before taking any advice from another person. Unless
it is an abusive relationship then one should try and seek guidance and protection for
their well-being.
Life-Changing Decisions by Author Julia G. Smith
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