You are set in your way of thinking, step back and listen and observe other ways
and other avenues. Take what works for you and leave the rest. This will not
happen overnight but in time it will. Get out of the normal routine and try
doing something out of the ordinary. Take one small step and change the way you look at things, see it from a different angle and see it as a lesson. That is
what life is about, learning lessons and passing the test for better things. Always have good intentions and you will create a good reality.
You are not being selfish to take time out for yourself. Everyone needs ‘me’ time.