Self-love is loving and accepting yourself simply because of who you are. Regardless of what you did or didn’t do, of what others think of you, or expect you to be.
The re-discovery of the real YOU, unaffected by the relationship and all the mess you went through your whole life. And in the end, you can look at yourself in the mirror and say: I’m so happy with myself, and I’m proud, where the breakup has led me to another chance for truly being happy with the right person.