If a process is taking longer than you'd like to manifest in ways you'd like, avoid any tendency to hasten it. Avoid as well, any inclination to accept second best, too.
Look more closely, if you can at what it is you're feeling. It's possible sometimes to give too much thought to a process or situation, when what is really needed is mental detachment.
Pay more notice to what you're feeling. Let your instincts
guide you in ways you might not be used to. Feeling your way into and through a situation will prove to be much more effective. Try it.