This leaves you in the land of conundrum where you want change, but you are afraid of change. Therefore, you will likely not change and remain in the same stagnant place you began in.
When it comes to your love life or relationship, you may not have all the information you need to make a definite decision, or to direct the question toward its logical conclusion. You may not be ready to take the next logical step, or are not seeing things clearly, or are at odds with your personal convictions.
In anxiety-provoking situations, you feel unable to act. You feel at a loss to come up with an effective response or any response at all. You may feel like you are all alone and that no matter what you do nothing will change, or improve your condition. You may withdraw into yourself to isolate yourself from others, and dwell on your troubles.
It's true that others can make our way pleasant or hard, but it is also true that we are responsible for our way. We can't leave someone else in charge of our purpose or happiness. It subjects us to uncertainty and insecurity.
Don't give in to self-doubt or it will make you vulnerable to disrespect, excuses or distrust. Respect your need for more time and 'know thyself' before you make any declarations, but don't overthink things.
Do some soul-searching and to make sure that you are on a course that you have planned. You need to carefully weigh up the pros and cons of everything before taking any action. It will give you the reassurance you need.
If you find that things are not quite going your way, it is the time to adjust your heading.
Trust and respect your inner voice before turning to outside opinion. They could easily distract you from your goals and ultimate success, or you could cause yourself unexpected delays and distractions. Try not to make any solid plans when everything is chaotic. Use time to your advantage, wisely.
It would be a good idea to focus on your strong points and your successes in the past in order to gain confidence in the present. Keep in mind that you able to achieve your goals even though you may feel otherwise at this time. Do not give up; keep trying. You need to move forward and any movement is better than none.