Sometimes, a hug is all you need to make you feel BETTER.
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The most powerful force on EARTH is LOVE.
Sometimes, a hug is all you need to make you feel BETTER. Who needs a hug?
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Wherever you are in the world, I hope you are safe. I also hope you know that you are loved. If everything is going well for you, Wonderful! But, if you are struggling and going through tough challenges, please know you are never alone, even if you feel alone. Please do not be ashamed or afraid of your present predicament. All you need to do is let someone know. There are people who will and want to help you. ~♥~ We all want to be successful in life, most of us anyways. Success is defined in many ways and looks different from one person to the next. It is something we all crave and dream about constantly.
With maybe a few exceptions none of us are born into success. Success is learned. It is something that you must practice and work on every day. There's nothing wrong with wanting to control situations in life. We won't achieve success without maintaining control over outcomes.
However, trying to retain control over a situation that you should be relinquishing control of, even briefly is something to consider. Sometimes, if you let something unfold in its own way and time, you will be very pleased with what develops. Our world seems to be governed by an unseen council that decides among other things, how we must behave and look.
The phrase that got used when we were younger was 'peer pressure'. Now, we are supposed to be more discerning. We are tempted to follow in others' footsteps in some way. Don't assume that because a particular path appears well-beaten, it is necessarily the right one. You have an option to pursue a path that is less obvious, but can provide greater reward. I am old school. I believe in having good manners, respecting my elders, being kind and helping others
when I can. Every one you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about, so be kind. When we all work together, the ripples of love and kindness are endless. There is nothing more beautiful in this life than profound kindness. Within this sphere we call life; one of the most profound things you can bestow upon others is “Kindness.” It’s free and the feelings you may get in return are truly priceless. Do something wonderful today!! ~♥~ When you are feeling abandoned by those around you, misunderstood by those you love, and totally helpless about your emotional future, you are likely to sink into a sense of solitude and melancholy.
The circumstances aren’t encouraging and it's certainly not a time, when people are not opening up to each other. Obviously, you can’t count on any team spirit . You'd do better to keep more to your own path. The presence of others will only get in your way, and what's worse, it cuts both ways! Try not to get too wrapped up in the mental side of things. Perhaps you're trying to work everything through in your mind. Perhaps, they are outside interferences by others, who are trying their hardest to manipulate your thinking. It might be good to step away from the situation and do more processing with your heart. Go with your instincts rather than rely so much on your thoughts. It would be in your best interest to stand back, and consider calmly the life choices that you see before you. We are encouraged to be honest with everyone we interact or have a connection with yet, we are aware of how truth 'hurts' sometimes.
By that rationale, we need to push aside any concerns about doing, or saying anything that could hurt or upset someone else. Much depends though on how we make our point. If making a truth known is done insensitively, then that adds the spark needed to dry tinder to create a heated or tense situation. Be honest with someone, but be diplomatic and above all, be sensitive. We hear people speak of 'hidden agendas'. We don't hear the phrase 'conflicting agendas' as often, despite encountering them more frequently than hidden agendas.
We all reserve the right to be passionate and invest utter belief in what matters to us. When two people do this, there is often a clash of some sort, as two people will not agree on everything all of the time. It is important to be a bit more supportive and flexible, where someone's conflicting agenda is concerned. Human beings are and always will be complex creatures. We sometimes overlook or are oblivious to how often; we must take into account of others' moods and sensitivities.
Sometimes, these are glaringly obvious and at other times certain people make a point of making clear to us, how moody or sensitive they are; leaving us in no doubt about how best to deal with them. We have to put up with the sullen mood of those around us. The best way to deal with a sensitive person is to tread carefully and give them some space. Too much of space is not healthy for both parties. |
AuthorJulia G. Smith is a writer of Life-Changing Decisions. Julia's unique style will encourage, inspire and nudge you to "push" past your obstacles, help you to achieve your goals and ultimately improve your self-confidence. Archives
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